From the wonderful Anne Lamott, who I love:
"But I did the only thing I could think to do: plunge on, and tell my truth. I said that this is the most intimate decision a woman makes, and she makes it all alone, in her deepest heart of hearts, sometimes with the man by whom she is pregnant, with her dearest friends or with her doctor — but without the personal opinion of say, Tom DeLay or Karl Rove."
From her essay at the LA Times. Read it.
(Thanks to Kim L. for pointing it out...)